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By Julia Rymut;

Does Stress Cause Acne?

Woman with stress acne

Western and Eastern Medicine agree that stress does cause acne. The imbalances that result from stress contribute to stress acne.

Woman with stress acneDoes stress cause acne?

The harried mom struggling to get her kids to half-a-dozen activities in different locations, who experiences acne for the first time in her life, would certainly agree that stress plays a role in acne.  So would the teen whose face breaks out in horrible zits the day before her school play.

Practitioners of traditional Eastern medicine have long connected emotional imbalance with acne and Western researchers now have strong evidence that stress plays a major role in triggering the hormones implicated in acne.

The Western Perspective

For decades, the Western perspective focused on acne’s physical causes. Despite the observations of many patients, the idea that stress played a role in acne and other skin disorders was mostly ignored.

Fortunately, Western healers are now increasingly realizing that there is a mind-skin connection and that stress can cause acne.

This new perspective has been coupled with research into the physical aspects of stress.  Recent studies have shown that teens experience more acne when under stress than at other times

Your body reacts to stress by releasing stress hormones, including cortisol.   Cortisol triggers inflammation in your entire system, including your skin and it also can trigger the production of more skin oil.

Inflammation is a far greater factor in acne than skin oil is.  An improper diet, too rich in refined sugars and processed foods, contributes to inflammation and makes it more difficult for your body to cope with stress.  Acne is not prevalent in countries where the average diet is low in refined sugars and processed food.

Does Stress Cause Acne?  The Eastern Perspective

Ayurvedic Medicine:

Traditional Eastern perspectives also see diet as a factor in overall health, but they focus on the whole person, concentrating on emotional imbalances as well as physical ones.  According to traditional Ayurvedic medicine, which has been practiced in India for 5,000 years, each person has three basic energies or doshas: vata, pitta, and kapha.  Each person is a unique combination of these doshas and imbalance in the doshas leads to illness.

Stress, relationship problems, diet and environmental factors unbalance the doshas and lead to health problems, including acne. Ayurvedic practitioners treat acne and other health problems by attempting to restore balance to the doshas.  Yoga, meditation, dietary changes, and herbal supplements are part of the Ayurvedic treatment of acne.

Traditional Chinese Medicine:

A similar approach is used in traditional Chinese medicine.  In Chinese medicine, acne is considered to be caused by disturbances to the body’s meridians by heat or damp heat. These imbalances can be produced by diet, overwork, and stress.

In addition, stress and emotional upsets cause stagnation of the the basic energy of the body or qi.  Acne is treated with herbal medicines and acupuncture to produce release of the qi and a return of the body’s natural balance.

Health = Balance

In the eastern perspective, health is balance in the whole person.  Stress, poor diet, emotional upset, unhealthy environments, and overwork all upset our internal balance, and acne is just one symptom of that upset.

If you suffer from stress acne, you are not alone.  Stress acne is one of the most common skin disorders; it is more common in women, than in men.  Even people in their sixties can suffer from acne when they are under stress.  Fortunately, alternative treatments offer hope that stress acne can be controlled and possibly cleared.

Filed Under: Causes of Stress, Stress & Health, Stress Articles Tagged With: acne, stress and health

By Julia Rymut;

Coping with Financial Stress

Financial stress is one of the hardest to shake. Constant, low grade, background worry can melt into every part of your life. What are some tips and strategies for coping with money worries? How can we face financial stresses and free ourselves from them?

In hard economic times, we all know what financial stress is.

  • Wondering how we will pay the bills
  • Worrying if we will loose our job
  • Worrying about how to find a new job
  • Playing “musical bills”, paying only the most pressing bills
  • Strategizing how to sell your house in a soft market before you go into default
  • Choosing between taking a job which takes you or your spouse far away or risking no job at all
  • Having to say “no” to your children because you don’t have the money for their clubs or activities

What do we do about it?

All of these decisions result in huge, on-going background stress. Even when you are relaxing and having fun, you can never totally let go.

Obviously, it is ideal to not worry. Living in total acceptance of whatever happens is always the best way to avoid stress.

After that, you can manage the stress. Take a walk. Go to a yoga class. Try to get your mind off of stress and onto fun.

And finally, you can improve your financial situation. How can you have some extra money so that you don’t need to worry?

Reduce Your Financial Stress and Mother at the Same Time

As mothers, we need to both gain financial freedom and have the flexibility to care for the people we love. Sometimes it seems like these two goals are mutually exclusive.

You can do both of these things by running an internet business from home. Working at home, and by leveraging the internet for its ability to communicate and reach people all over the country–all over the world, you can build a business which stabilizes your finances and relieves your financial stress.

Filed Under: Stress Relief Tips Tagged With: financial stress, stress-free living

By Julia Rymut;

Coloring your Gray Hair from Stress — Natural Ways to Restore your Normal Hair

When you hair turns gray from stress, your first step is to reduce the stress. After that, coloring your gray hair naturally may be your next solution.

Stress-Related Gray Hair Solutions

Woman Taking Walk on Beach Stress contributes to gray hair by causing the pigment cells in your scalp to wear out more quickly than normal. You may notice that you have grayed quickly during a stressful year.

There is no perfect solution to prevent stress-related gray hair, but of course, general stress reduction can help. If you smoke, try to quit or at least cut back. Get plenty of exercise and eat a well-balanced diet with plenty of anti-oxidant loaded vegetables and fruits. Anti-oxidants are nutrients which fight damage to our cells by chemicals known as free radicals; several studies indicate they may prevent cancer and they may also help prevent premature aging.

Along with exercise and diet, be sure to get adequate sleep. Take time during the day to simply unwind and get your mind off your problems. Make time for activities you enjoy. Above all cultivate a youthful, positive attitude. A positive attitude is a great buffer against life’s stresses, including stress-related gray hair.

Covering Gray Hair: Natural Methods to Cover the Gray

Aromatherapy

The simplest method for coloring your gray hair is to massage essential oils into your scalp every night. For dark hair, try rosemary, thyme or sage. For lighter hair, try german chamomile or lavender. Put 2-3 drops of the oil on your palms and rub into your scalp every night. This will help condition the skin of the scalp.

Herbal Rinse

Herbal rinses are another way to reverse gray hair.

For dark hair, choose one or more:

  • Rosemary
  • Sage
  • Raspberry leaves
  • Parsley
  • Ivy Berries
  • Catnip
  • Black Tea
  • Black coffee (just make strong black coffee and use this as a rinse)

For blond or light hair:

  • rosehips
  • red hibiscus
  • calendula
  • saffron
  • marigold
  • tumeric
  • mullein
  • privet
  • yellow broom

Choose some herbs from the lists above and put about 1/2 cup of dried herbs/flower/berries in 2 cups of water. Simmer for 30 minutes and then let it sit for another 2-3 hours. You will have a very strong “tea” for your hair. Strain out the vegetable matter and pour it on your hair after shampooing. Let it sit for several minutes and rinse out. Gradually you will notice your hair color changing.

Gray Hair Treatment: Potato

For dark hair, boil 1 unpeeled potato. Cool the water and massage the potato-water onto your scalp and into your hair with a cotton ball. Leave it for 20 minutes and then rinse out.

Gray Hair Treatment: Rum

Ingredients:

  • 4 tablespoons of dried sage
  • 1 water
  • 4 teaspoons of rum
  • 1 ounce glycerin
  • A few drops of vitamin E

Boil the sage in the water and let it sit for 2 hours. Strain it and add the rest of the ingredients. Use some cotton and rub this darkening concoction on your scalp everyday. Gradually your hair will get darker.

Henna

If your gray hair is really bothering you, choose a henna instead of chemical dyes for covering your gray hair. There is some inconclusive evidence that hair dyes can cause cancer, but why take a chance? When you are under stress, your body is especially susceptible to toxins. Henna is a great alternative.

Henna is a plant which is used for natural red/brown dyes. It will not dye your hair completely, but it changes the gray to colors which blend in with your natural hair color. It will also condition your hair.

HennaForHair is an interesting site which explains exactly how henna works to cover your gray. Catherine Cartwright-Jones, the site owner, loves henna in a big way and has great information including an incredible e-book called “How to Henna Hair”. Everything you have ever wanted to know about henna is in this book, including many pictures of henna-ed hair so you can picture exactly how it will turn out.

If you want to go to a real bricks and mortar store, visit you natural food store and look for Light Mountain Natural Hair Color (affiliate link). They have a line of pre-mixed hennas for every hair color, designed specifically to cover gray hair.

When stress causes your hair to turn gray, you first concern should be to reduce your stress. After that, coloring your gray hair may be a nice solution to feel more like yourself again.

Filed Under: Stress & Health, Stress Relief Tips Tagged With: stress management

By Julia Rymut;

What is Chronic Stress?

Humans have always lived in a world with stress, and our bodies are adapted to deal with stresses. However, through evolution, our bodies are most suited to deal with acute stressors, not chronic stress. And because of this quirk, our modern life which sustains stressful situations for long periods of time, creates lots of chronic stress related disease.

Fight or Flight

When we humans were more controlled by our environment, we developed a marvelous and quite miraculous system to survive. This is called our “Fight or Flight” response. In general, a threat, such as a lion or a troupe of enemies armed with pointy spears, would trigger a series of chemical events which ready our body for immediate fight or immediate flight. It worked great.

Now our dangers are, well, less “pointy”. A really surly boss does not pose the same threat as a mammoth and fighting or fleeing is not necessarily the most beneficial or the most productive solution. And while meeting a deadline at work would appear to be directly related to survival (not losing your job which pays for your food), as say, killing the deer, the fight or flight response is still a tad inappropriate.

So our bodies have yet to catch up with our modern life.

Or better yet–we have yet to learn how to use our bodies to our advantage in modern life.

Eustress

Some people use stress to gain peak performance. This “good” stress, which enhances your abilities instead of disabling them is called eustress.

When in peril, your body mounts an immediate response to prepare for action. Your breathing and heart rate increase, your blood pressure goes up, your pupils dilate (to see the threat), and you begin to sweat (to cool the body for the coming battle). At the same time, the brain starts excreting hormones like mad, to coordinate the muscles, nervous system, and endocrine system so that you are at peak performance. Digestion ceases and your energy is diverted to your muscles.

After the threat leaves, all of this reverses itself, and your body goes back to a relaxed state. You eat the deer and talk about how brave you were fighting the lion. Everyone laughs and you go to bed happy.

General Adaptive Stress: Stress Gone Mad

But in our modern world, our stressors do not have finite end. After the surly boss leaves and you get a call about a new deadline. When you hang up, the school nurse calls and you must pick Jimmy up from school. You stop to get dinner as you go home; you have a fight with your teenager about homework; your ex calls to change plans for the weekend. You go to bed angry and worried and get up the next day to do it all again. Your heart raced all day, your blood pressure was up and your hormones were nuts from all the stressors, real and imagined.

Hans Seyle

Hans Seyle is the Father of Stress Research–much of our understanding of chronic stress begins with his research.

This constant state of stress arousal leads to General Adaptive Stress, or GAS.

When the Nervous System is Constantly Vigilant

Our nervous system has two parts to it.

The somatic manages the body’s movements and processes external stimuli. This is under our conscious control.

The autonomic system functions in the background of our consciousness, and this is what functions during stress.

There are three parts to the autonomic system. The sympathetic system is in charge of emergencies. The parasympathetic is in charge of resting, relaxation, and “normal” metabolic function. The entericsystem manages digestion. To understand stress, the relationship between the sympathetic and parasympathetic system is important.

Our sympathetic nervous system switches on in emergencies. It keeps us acute and ready for action. It is yang, energizing, active, aroused and short term oriented.

The other part of the automatic nervous system is the parasympathetic system. This is yin, calming, and soothing. The parasympathetic system has a long term view for growth, maintenance, and health. It should be operating most of the time.

Chronic stress is when we operate in the sympathetic nervous system long term, without end. This never ending “alert” is called General Adaptive Stress.

Phases of General Adaptive Stress

There’s an alternative stress reaction: “Tend And Befriend” and mothers do it naturally.

There are 3 phases recognized in General Adaptive Stress:

1. Alarm– This is the initial fight or flight stage. The body readies itself for action. The hypothalamus in the brain activates the hormones, especially the adrenal glands. Steroids flood the blood. The heart begins beating faster and the bronchial tubes dilate to increase breathing. The liver releases sugar into the blood.

2. Resistance– If the stress continues, we enter resistance phase. This stage is tricky because from many indicators, our body adapts to the stressor and we appear to cope. The initial alarm cycle recedes and the adrenals return to their normal size. However, the body is still over producing hormones and this puts wear and tear on all organs and makes fertile ground for inflammation and disease. Cortisol levels remain high. Here we are at the “I’m at my max” state of mind. Defense mechanisms and coping strategies all increase and we are ready to crack at the slightest event.

3. Exhaustion– If the stress still has not stopped, we enter exhaustion phase. Here our alarm reaction may reappear, with increased respiration and heart rate, sweating, etc., but we have no reserves to feed it. We are exhausted, depleted and often not thinking like ourselves. Our immune system is worn down; the heart and blood vessels are weakened. There is nothing left.

In this final stage, the risk for disease and illness is the greatest, although as one advances through all the stages of stress, the body make break down from abnormal hormone levels and metabolic activity.

But even more important, chronic will affect a person’s emotions, making all our personal relations strained.

Filed Under: Stress Articles Tagged With: stress and health, stressors

By Julia Rymut;

Causes of Stress

The causes of stress are many–from the big, lifetime occurrences like loosing a loved one or loosing your job, to the small, daily stressors like getting a parking ticket and talking with your child’s teacher about her latest grades. Sometimes the causes are physical–an illness or injury, and other times they are mental–a fight or a difficult deadline.

In everyone’s life, we have stress. Understanding the what causes stress can help us to better manage our stress, to anticipate what we need to do to cope, and make arrangements to reduce the stressors as much as possible.

Typical Causes of Stress

Woman Caring for her Elderly Father

  • Your job–especially jobs like nursing, or changing jobs.
  • School–exam time is particularly stressful
  • Moving
  • Relationships
  • Financial difficulties
  • Marriage–getting married or having a troubled marriage
  • Death
  • Pregnancy and having a baby in the house
  • Caring for an aging parent
  • Injury or illness of you or someone close to you

Demographic Groups that are Prone to Extra Stress

  • Women
  • Children
  • Students
  • Minorities
  • The Poor

Traits and Attitudes that Increase Stress

  • “Type A” personalities/overachievers
  • Rigid, inflexible thinkers when coping with change
  • Pessimists

Spiritual Causes of Stress

Yin Yang Symbol

  • Questioning “Who am I?” “Why am I here?” “Do I matter?” Teenagers can experience this type of stress.
  • Not being in the now. Anticipating and fearing the future and replaying the past.
  • Resistance. Wanting things to be different than they are adds an additional layer of stress to whatever is happening.
  • Not knowing what is important. Chasing false ideals (money, fame, etc) and forgetting what matters to you most causes stress when your success seems empty.
  • Not knowing what is really a true threat. When we worry about unimportant things (or worry at all), we create stress but don’t create action to resolve the threat.
  • Lack of connection with God, creativity, beauty.

Spiritual stress may be the most amorphous of the stressors. We hardly recognize an existential crisis in our busy everyday lives, and yet often at the root of stress, we have lost our connection with the Divine. We yearn for meaning, security, a sense of place. When we are in touch with the Divine, often very stressful situations pass easily. A death becomes a tender farewell. A financial crisis becomes a chance to reprioritize. A lost job becomes an opportunity to do something more fulfilling.

Our lives have stress. The lists above demonstrate that the people who don’t have a stressor in their live are a smaller group than the people who do. So while the causes of stress are important to understand, what is more important is that we learn tocope with the stress that inevitably comes our way.

Filed Under: Causes of Stress, Stress Articles Tagged With: stress and health, stressors

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